Tips for Socializing Your Kitten with People & Other Pets

You'll want your kitten to become a cat that relates well to people and is a friend and companion. To achieve this, you need to bear in mind that cats have a very short socialization phase. So the first four to 16 weeks of life are a critical time for behavioral and social development.

Your kitten's early experiences

Before your kitten comes to live with you, she will have been interacting with her mother, the other kittens in her litter and probably several different people.

Be wary of choosing a kitten that has had little human contact, such as a kitten that has been raised in a shed or pen far from the house. Kittens need to get used to being handled by people very early on, preferably by several people so they don't just learn to accept a single caregiver. They also need to become accustomed to the sights, smells and sounds of everyday life.

Your kitten will probably move into your home when she's about eight to 12 weeks of age. Assuming she's already had lots of human contact, it shouldn't be too difficult for you to reinforce all the good work and help her grow into a friendly, happy, confident cat.

When your kitten first arrives home with you, remember it can all be a bit overwhelming for her. Take her to a quiet, safe place and show her where her bowls and litter boxes are. Give her lots of love and reassurance and pet her gently, talking to her in a soft, calm voice. Playing is also a great way to socialize your kitten and form a bond with her early on in your relationship.

Kids and kittens

Your kitten should be socialized with children as early as possible, as she may reject or bite them later if she hasn't become used to them early on.

If you have children, they will naturally be very excited about the arrival of a new kitten. Your job is to teach them that your kitten is not a toy and must be treated carefully. Play time must end when the kitten has had enough. It's also a good idea to warn the children that she may scratch or play-bite.

Your kitten and other people

People come in all different shapes and sizes and your kitten should have the opportunity to encounter them all. Get her used to strangers but be careful that they don't scare or overwhelm her with a strong show of affection.

It's a good idea to introduce your young kitten to as many people as possible. That way, you're likely to avoid her developing a fear of strangers in later life.